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1st July 2016

How to do (modern) black tie

Fashion - By Alexandra Stedman
Top: £21, Boden. Skirt: £110, Needle & Thread (buy a similar, shorter one from Asos here). Mules: £15.99, New Look. Photographs: Christopher O’Donnell
Last week my husband and I had a wonderful evening at Glyndebourne: it was our first time ever at the opera but not only that: it was a black tie dress code (emoji: shock horror).
Actually, that’s a bit of a lie –  it’s not technically compulsory black tie. But everyone does, and it’s quite a wonderful tradition, jumping on the bus from Lewes in tuxedos and ball gowns with our hampers and picnic blankets. How incredibly British. And it didn’t rain!
We watched The Barber of Seville, which was witty, funny and brilliant – I never knew opera could be comedic (and there were surprisingly some subtitles, which helped with the whole thing). And dinner is eaten in the hour and a half long interval in the open air (or under cover is the weather isn’t up to it). I used the opportunity to try a black tie outfit my way – I haven’t worn black tie for years and frankly, it’s just not my thing. So when I saw this tulle skirt from Needle & thread, I knew that was the way to do it.

 

 

The stripe top was a bit of a no brainer for me, and I didn’t feel underdressed at all. The gold spot on the breton adds just enough bling and evening feel to a classic top, and I’m pretty sure I’ll get more wear out of it in the years to come.

Sunglasses: £28 in the sale, Le Specs at Very Exclusive.  Top: £21, Boden. Skirt: £110, Needle & Thread (buy a similar, shorter one from Asos here). Clutch: £20, Elizabeth Scarlett. Mules: £15.99, New Look
Exhibition on Raqib Shaw at White Cube, Glyndebourne
Clutch: £20, Elizabeth Scarlett.Bracelets: black, £90, Astley Clarke, gold: £95, Astley Clarke

I’m pretty sure this clutch bag I’m using is a washbag (in fact, I know it is) but it fits loads in, is my favourite colour (navy) and covered in pineapples. I’m obsessed. Oh, and it’s £20.

And can we talk about flats with ballgowns? I love the idea of feeling and looking comfortable in a dressy outfit, and flats are the only way I ever look comfortable. There’s something quite nonchalant about dressing down a full length look, and mules are so perfect (and on trend).

 

Thank you for having us, Glyndebourne! Definitely a ‘bucket-list’ moment for me. I would thoroughly recommend it to anyone who loves the theatre, and especially if you haven’t been to the opera before – tickets start at £10 and you can get train tickets to Lewes quite cheaply if you book in advance and take your own picnic. And the chance to dress up in your finest? It’s an opportunity not to be missed.
Meanwhile, shop my edit of ‘fancy flats’ below (I bought the pom pom version!):
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By Alexandra Stedman

Fashion Editor, Blogger, Realist

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Comments

  1. Sloane Beck says

    1st July 2016 at 7:00 am

    Black is always my favourite and it is always in trend. I simply loved your outfit. You are looking very pretty. I have a best collection of crystal clutches, best for this outfit.

    Reply
  2. Anonymous says

    1st July 2016 at 9:07 am

    very cute outfit!especially love the golden dots on the breton shirt!

    Reply
    • Alexandra Stedman says

      3rd July 2016 at 9:39 pm

      Makes a classic breton feel that little bit more fancy!

      Reply
  3. Ann Jacob-Chandler says

    3rd July 2016 at 5:26 pm

    It's on our to-do list for this year – your pics look fab and glad the sun was shining! Ann X

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    • Alexandra Stedman says

      3rd July 2016 at 9:38 pm

      You will love it, such a wonderful experience. We're off to the Edinburgh Tattoo in August – definitely a wishlist year!

      Reply
    • Ann Jacob-Chandler says

      8th July 2016 at 7:50 pm

      Tattoo is fab – bring some waterproofs and warm gear though. And if you are 'free' between festival festivities – I'd love to meet you over a coffee (or cocktail!) X

      Reply
  4. Nita says

    4th July 2016 at 1:59 pm

    Ooh this is a super exciting post for me as I'm going to Glyndebourne for the first time in a couple of weeks -seeing The Marriage of Figaro and can't wait! I have a floral black maxi to wear but love your twist on the style. btw am quite a new visitor to your blog and absolutely loving it -am already planning on checking out Topshop's blue nailpolishes based on your latest post!

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    • Alexandra Stedman says

      4th July 2016 at 5:40 pm

      Oh how fab – you will love it – such a wonderful tradition, The Marriage of Figaro is supposed to be amazing! xx

      Reply
  5. okay google says

    5th July 2016 at 10:07 am

    This is a great article, that I really enjoyed reading. Thanks for sharing.

    Reply
  6. Martin Libossart Ruiz says

    29th July 2016 at 11:43 am

    Nice post, i like it.

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