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22nd November 2017

Sometimes the best maternity clothes aren’t maternity at all…

Fashion, Parenting - By Alexandra Stedman

Dress: £30, Asos. Heels: £29.50, Marks & Spencer. Photographs: Christopher O’Donnell.

I am doing my best not to buy too many maternity clothes.

Firstly, it’s against my nature to buy something out of necessity rather than loving it – especially for only a short space of time. Secondly, I rather loathe being put into ‘pregnant person’ box in terms of style – don’t get me wrong, I love that we are starting a family, I’m beginning to somewhat enjoy pregnancy but I still hope to be a stylish, independent woman that happens to be pregnant.

After speaking to a few friends, they confirmed what I thought I knew – if you can, then try and utilise what you have – wear your oversized shirts still, buy some maternity jeans so you have back-ups and actually, ‘Bodycon’ clothes will be your new best friend.

I probably would have been a bit more apprehensive about this style of dress in the past, but this is probably one of the few times I’ve embraced pushing my stomach out, not worried how much bread I had for dinner and just enjoyed it. And for £30, that’s a winner for me. This dress isn’t maternity but they do sell a maternity version here (although I am unsure of the difference).

Dress: £30, Asos. Heels: £29.50, Marks & Spencer. Personalised bag: £30, Aurora. Lip colour in ‘Caterina’: £27, Dolce & Gabbana.

Chinoiserie has been a micro trend that has taken me a bit by surprise, this season. Ever since seeing Lindsay from Ropes of Holland in the Rixo Chinoiserie prints, I have been thinking about it more and more. So when I saw this dress, I snapped it up – the length would make a great occasionwear dress too for the festive period – just sling a velvet blazer over the top.

Oh and the heels were another impulse buy, I saw someone wearing them at my Kitri store event last month and immediately checked them out online – velvet, walkable kitten heels for under £30 – I had to have them.

And the location? Well, more to come on that soon – we just spent a babymoon in Morocco and feeling so relaxed…the perfect downtime before the madness of pre-Christmas starts again. We fell in love with the gorgeous colours of our Riad and it made quite a beautiful backdrop, making a change from dreary London.

By Alexandra Stedman

Fashion Editor, Blogger, Realist

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Comments

  1. Siân says

    22nd November 2017 at 10:45 am

    You look lovely and I agree – bodycon is great for dressing the bump, and if you can get away with non-maternity then do! Also found I bought some maternity/nursing dresses and tops which weren’t useful at all as they were weirdly sized when not pregnant so I didn’t want to wear them for nursing anyway (why are most nursing clothes also for pregnant people?!) Is that bag good quality? Seems like a real bargain so I’m quite tempted…
    Glad you had a relaxing babymoon – Essaouira is so lovely x

    Reply
    • Alexandra Stedman says

      22nd November 2017 at 11:23 pm

      Yes I’m kind of avoiding nursing outfits…I think hopefully I’ll just find what works and cross that bridge when I come to it! The bag isn’t leather but it’s lovely quality and fully lined xxx

      Reply
      • Siân says

        24th November 2017 at 4:37 pm

        Ah that’s weird – they say they’re leather on the website?
        Yeah I’m sure you’ll work out what works for you! x

        Reply
        • Alexandra Stedman says

          26th November 2017 at 10:07 am

          Oh maybe it is! I just assumed because of the price it wasn’t! xxx

          Reply
  2. Rachel says

    22nd November 2017 at 8:24 pm

    Maternity or not you look fab! Ironically given that I never intend to be pregnant again I bought an Asos maternity dress as it was the only maxi dress that fit my wish list!

    Reply
    • Alexandra Stedman says

      22nd November 2017 at 11:22 pm

      I have a stripe wool dress that I love, and would’ve bought it even if I wasn’t pregnant – I often think ‘labelling’ clothes is a pointless task – if you like it and it works, get it! xx

      Reply
  3. Katy says

    23rd November 2017 at 12:59 pm

    Hi Alex
    Can you tell me where your tiny gold hoop (in your second hole) is from? I’m having trouble finding one as small I want xx

    Reply
    • Alexandra Stedman says

      24th November 2017 at 10:17 am

      Oh it’s Maria Tash – I got it pierced with the hoop x

      Reply
  4. Katy says

    24th November 2017 at 5:00 pm

    Thank you ?

    Reply
  5. Meera says

    27th November 2017 at 4:48 pm

    Thanks for this fab post Alex! I am definitely in the same frame of mind! Love this dress on you! I will definitely be looking to you for inspo for non-mat maternity wear! Maybe you could do a trimester update of your top tricks and tips? x

    Reply
  6. Aja says

    28th November 2017 at 6:48 pm

    I love those heels! They’re so elegant.

    Reply
  7. Fashion Blogger says

    8th April 2018 at 10:43 pm

    This is such a great look! Perfect for women who want to
    feel confidence and style! I am a big fan of such cool fashion ideas.

    Love it!
    XOXO

    Reply
  8. Julia says

    12th April 2018 at 12:03 pm

    Looking your style, I automatically start to think of Ralph Lauren words “Fashion is not necessarily about labels. It’s not about brands. It’s about something else that comes from within you.”

    Reply

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