So, we’ve been using reusable nappies (as well as disposables) in our routine with Peggy since she was around 8 months old and I wanted to share some info on our journey so far. This isn’t an ‘everyone MUST do this’ post, we don’t solely use them but we feel good for every nappy we don’t throw away (not to mention not having them on every shopping list) and I wanted to share some info on how we’ve got on over the past 6 months. And I would like to add that I am no expert at all, but hopefully this can provide some balanced advice from someone navigating this territory!
Basically, it has been an easier transition than we thought! A few years ago, the idea of reusing nappies made me feel gross – I’m quite a clean freak but frankly, dealing with disposables ain’t much cleaner and once you get your head around that, reusables are totally do-able.
We haven’t gone fully reusable yet because we’re scared. Not of the nappies, but of leaks at night (we haven’t used them for 12 hour stints yet) and asking nursery to do it, when it’s our choice – I know, we should, we’re just not there yet. But my thoughts are that a lot of people doing something is a whole lot better than a load of people doing nothing. Hopefully my ramblings might make someone use a reusable nappy once a day – and that helps!
The funny thing is, most of our parents used cloth nappies, they got through it and it was a whole lot harder then! For us, it’s re-conditioning ourselves into unlearning all we know about nappies (ditching convenience, which is probably the hardest part). And trust me, it’s not as scary as you’d think.
First off: how cute are the nappies? They give Peggy a really chunky bum and it makes me smile so much – she is a bum shuffler so I think they (might) give her a little more support!
We started by researching The Nappy Lady website initially. It’s the best site with a huge range of nappies, it has clear breakdowns on the benefits of each one (some with lovely back stories on the brands, too), plus videos on how to use each nappy and how to wash (I found these immensely useful).
We initially bought two from Totsbots, cloth nappies with a Motherease wrap to go on top. We mainly went for them because they seemed the securest for leaks and could be used for day and night but also the story sounded lovely (the owner started making nappies for her baby as she couldn’t afford to buy them, then started making for friends, and now provides work for locals in her hometown of Glasgow!). I’m not going to lie, these are our least favourite. We use them, but only when there is no other option, despite them being probably the securest for leaks. I think the hassle of using the wrap as well as the cloth nappy, paired with the fact that the cloth gets sodden, which makes me worry about Peggy being a little damper than usual, doesn’t make me love them (however, these are supposed to the the BEST for overnight use, so we might start to love them again in the future).
But then my sister gave me a few Bambino Mio Solo nappies she had from her first baby (I had no idea she had even been using them!) and for me, they were a total game changer. They fit exactly like a disposable nappy, super easy to use and the cutest designs. And then Aldi had a special offer on them in store (selling for £8 as opposed to the usual £15.99) so my mum picked me up a couple of extra ones. Now I had around 7 nappies and we were starting to get into the swing of things.
Soon after, a reader reminded me of the council incentives to contribute towards costs, so I applied via Real Nappies for London and was offered a voucher for £54.15 (check out Fill Your Pants site for details on what is offered in your Borough and Nationwide) – so I went for the most expensive nappies we could get this time: 2 x Totsbots Elements and a Milovia Pocket Nappy we had been recommended by a reader. To be honest: Bambino Mio are still my favourite (and I am no way affiliated with them).
We now have 10 reusable nappies which is working for our usage of Friday – Tuesday afternoon (4.5 days a week), with washes in between so there is generally always one available drying if we need. We will probably up it soon but this is our current scenario. Most say that 20 is a good amount for full-time wear.
Yes, we have to wash a lot but we have to wash a lot anyway (did we mention we have a baby?), yes we have to scrape poo off the nappy, flush it and (preferably) rinse it straight away (but did you know you are supposed to do this with a disposable anyway?!) but frankly, I am much less worried about touching poo these days – it happens, a lot.
I think our epiphany came when we were away in Norfolk and only took reusable nappies for the daytime. There was an accident and Peggy’s nappy was leaking through to her trousers, we ran into a restaurant where we wanted to have lunch, but they were closed (despite staff being there) and wouldn’t even let us use the bathroom. It was 1 degree celsius outside and windy. We had to change her in the boot of our 20 year old Ford Fiesta in the freezing cold, everything exposed to the elements. We then had to carry the dirty nappy home with us – and you know what? We survived. It was fine. And that’s when we knew we could carry on – it actually excites me whenever we don’t throw a nappy in the bin.
Storage-wise, we don’t have a nappy pail but we’re looking into it. The fact that most of them are plastic annoys me, and we have been using a lined drawstring bag we already had to store dirty nappies. We always wash soiled nappies and generally stick straight in the wash so the only smell is occasionally of wee, so we keep it either in her room and make sure it’s aired, or our spare room which is an undecorated bomb site of junk anyway. We have a nappy bin in her room for disposables which smells far worse whenever it’s opened….! Apparently net bags can be useful to transfer the cloth nappies into the wash so you don’t have to handle them again – but this doesn’t really bother me too much.
We have bought some extra booster pads, as often these help prevent leaks and allow the nappies to last longer. We were passed on some disposable nappy liners from my sister (some say they’re flushable but best not to) to catch poo but we don’t use these now, we just remove and wash the booster which generally catches everything for us, or you can buy (or make!) washable fleece liners which are easy to use.
When we go out, we use waterproof zip wallets (which are great even if you don’t use cloth nappies!) to carry old nappies and they also make them for reusable wipes, too.
We don’t use special nappy cleaner in with our wash, and all seems to be fine so far.
And I think that is everything I can share…! So far our reusable nappies have set us back £64.42:
2 Totsbots nappies with Motherease wrap: £32.77
3 pack of booster pads: £11.95
2 Bambino Mio Solo nappies via Aldi: £16
3 nappies bought via council voucher – difference paid: £3.70
3 nappies given to me by my sister
But bear in mind we still buy disposeables as well. In terms of disposables, when we can afford to, we buy biodegradable (Mum and You are superb) or we buy Lupilu ones from Lidl. Reusable nappies aren’t cheap, but the long-term cost does work out cheaper, and obviously it works out cheaper the more children you might have. We are hoping to use 100% reusable if we have another child (it is worth thinking about sizings though, as newborns might need a different size nappy and you may need more, as they require more changes).
And obviously if you are really savvy about it, these costs could be even less – buying nappies secondhand, for example, saves loads of money, plus there is a huge resale market – you could even make a lot of your money back.
All in all, it has been a good experience for us, and I must admit there is something lovely about never having too much panic if we haven’t got a nappy – there’s always one drying or one we can bung in the wash quickly!
PS we also use Cheeky Wipes at home instead of throwaway wipes and have never looked back.
Some extra tips:
When travelling, make sure you have access to a washing machine, that’s why Spain is so easy for us this summer. We’ve also bought reusable swim nappies (Aldi have a deal on them, too! £4.99 as opposed to £9.99).
Cloth nappies become more absorbent over time, so the more you use them, the better they get! But also maybe wash them a few times before you use (we actually never did this, and used them from the get go).
There is a great secondhand market, which is great for saving money plus also helping people who cannot afford to buy them new. The Nappy Lady has advice for reselling here and has a Facebook page for Buying and Reselling, too!
If you are eligible for a council voucher but don’t know where to start, The Nappy Lady offers a Trial pack, with a balanced selection of a few different nappies to start with.
Once you have finished with your nappies, there are lots of options to help put them back into circulation or recycle, this site helps you decide.
There are lots of groups and meet-ups you can be part of too, where people share info and do tutorials – Time for a Nappy Change Facebook page shares really useful information.